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The Part of Parenting I have Difficulty With

Zelig — Thu, 07 Oct 2010 17:40:00 +0000

Brokenness is the prerequisite of salvation.

The things used, and paths walked to reach the point of conscious brokenness are varied. Yet the unity of Christian witness across the centuries to the necessity of being broken in order to begin real life is overwhelming. That means that my children, if they are to know real, full, joyous, eternal life, will need to know real brokenness.

I have a friend that, years ago, started praying that God would bring about whatever it took to make his children real, deep followers of Jesus. I remember thinking I didn’t want to go there. I still don’t.

I have a problem with asking God for the circumstances that will bring about my boys’ brokenness. How can I ask for things to happen to my sons that will break them utterly? At the same time, how can I not ask for the very things that they need in order to see and know God?

Thousands protest global warming…

Zelig — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 17:51:25 +0000

How are you doing?

Zelig — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 13:48:47 +0000

Here’s part of an email I sent in response to a friend’s question.

“How am I doing? Thanks for asking. You didn’t have to, and I appreciate it.

Instead of a polite, culturally acceptable lie like, “Oh, fine.” Here’s the truth.

Right now both the boys have the flu. That sucks. I can’t do anything to stop them hurting. That REALLY sucks.

I’m tempted to look at porn on the internet.

I don’t pray very much

Scripture is pretty dry right now.

I’m in constant need, and completely dependent on God, but I live like I’m not.

I have a great wife, wonder-full kids, and more good stuff in my life than i even know, and in the back of my mind it’s not enough. I always want more.

Now here’s the rest of the truth.

God reigns, and he’s faithful.

He loves my boys more than I do.

He knows all about my weaknesses.

He’s able to complete what He started.

This is just real life in an imperfect world.

Much more info than you may have wanted, but I’ve got to start being real.”

Prayer for a friend

Zelig — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 12:47:58 +0000

I have a friend who just found out his youngest son is hiv positive.

I tried to imagine saying the words he said to me, “My son is hiv positive.”

Couldn’t go there, too dark. That’s where he lives now.

Lord, have mercy, Christ have mercy.

Teen Translator

Zelig — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 20:50:50 +0000

This is me with God.

Politics

Zelig — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 17:46:27 +0000

I won’t spend much time discussing politics with anyone. But I never, EVER, want to hear anyone talk about how republicans spend too much money.

Look at this.

It’s a digital age

Zelig — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 18:35:02 +0000

I’m old enough to remember when this would have been a concert, and the lights would have been lighters.

The journey

Zelig — Sat, 31 Jan 2009 21:11:16 +0000

I was reading the story of Elijah fleeing Jezebel this morning, and heard a good word for me.

“Get up and eat, for the journey is too much for you.” I Kings 19:7

Without nourishment for my soul, my journey is too much for me.

Simple, basic, Christianity 101. But I need to hear it again, because I try to make the journey in my own strength way too much of the time.

Finally! I don’t have to be embarrassed by my lack of yodeling ability in an emergency situation!

Zelig — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 23:58:19 +0000

“Nothing lifts the spirits like a good yodel, but most of us don’t have the skill to yodel on cue. That’s where the Emergency Yodel Button comes in.” (From product description)

Go here and listen to the melodious sounds of the alpine yodel.

“I Am Second” – Nate Larkin

Zelig — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 17:05:55 +0000

I know nobody out there really struggles with porn, but just in case…

Nate Larkin’s story