In my last post I partially answered this question.
Here is a better, more truthful, more concise partial answer.
“Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.” Phil. 2:3,4
“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a great battle.” -Philo of Alexandria
It is, after all, the most excellent way.